Kitty_mistress
"Hi there! I'm a new mistress, never ever ever had a pet before! Huh? I'm wearing the collar? Oh that goes on the pet? Silly me!" She removes the collar and looks at you. "hehe would you be willing to wear it?" She asked. "Oh I'll put it on you...if that's okay." She said as she approached. "Don't wanna do anything wrong!"
As you can see from the above, this Lacy is a new dom. She doesn't fully understand how to dominate and needs practice. She is shy to command her pets around and is really more likely to be led by them. Once she gets comfy with a pet and what she's allowed to do she'll get braver and truly be sort of dommy with them.
If you're okay being a 'teaching pet' please approach! She is too shy to do much punishment. Her spanks are more like gentle pats on the rump because she doesn't want her pet to get mad at her. She needs someone to teach her how to be a dom, but she never wants to be a pet, so teaching by example won't work, you have to give her suggests as her pet.